chaco taco asked:


I have officially decided that its time to revamp my image and my capabilities, and I’m tired of being mediocre at everything. I cannot tell if this is an identity crisis or the fact that I simply haven’t been able to truly realize that perhaps I just don’t understand the order of things. I’m afraid that I dream of big things and great accomplishments but am cursed with none of the abilities necessary to do them.

I started at football in High School, yet I was always jealous and disheartened by those who had the natural physique and skill to be college worthy. It just made me angry that in the grand scheme of things that some kid, not due to any work ethic or greatness of his character, was blessed with the genes that allowed him run faster than me and lift more than I could.

In academics, I was always frustrated that I simply was too bored, too angry, and too lazy to excel in the high school education system. I was again jealous of those who, though lacking in physical capability or social skills, had in my opinion a set life ahead of them just with their raw intelligence and academic work ethic. I always felt as though if I possessed that kind of intelligence, my goals would be clear cut and the direction of my life simple.

Socially, I do not charismatically take over my situation.
I have a fairly difficult time small talking, and I’m in no way getting the joys that I see so many of the socialite pretty boys at my school enjoying, particularly the attractive women. I could never manipulate others or convince people to follow me.

Now High School is ending, and I get a fresh start in college. What should I do, work on my weaknesses or fortify my strengths? Should I tone down my own self-improvement rhetoric? and just accept that maybe I’m just a mediocre person destined for mediocre things? Or am I fine, and merely just need a change in environment?

Anyways, I’m going to college on an ROTC scholarship, so I’m going to be in the military. Perhaps this is my avenue for excellence. So perhaps merely recommendations for success in college or military is all I need.
thanks.

Aleck

stef asked:


Nothing about suceeding at your job or anything, just self improvement books. Thanks

Alick

Jane asked:


Hello everyone,

I am wondering whether you know of a good book or two that I can read. I am trying to become a better manager by improving my management skills and communication skills. I hope to become a strong leader someday. I have read quite a few self improvement books and don’t mind reading several more.

Thank you for your time.

Ailbert

DCHJTTS asked:


I have been wanting to do a little self improvement, but I don’t know where to start, so here I am. I was kinda thinking i should work on my look(i am really goth/ tomboyish), personality, attitude(i should be nicer), grades(i am usually A student, but grades r slipping a lil), religion( i am Catholic), and extracurriculars. Any ideas on how to start and how to stay motivated? 10 POINTS TO BEST ANSWER!!!!!

Alasdair

Aly asked:


I just need some good self improvement books and goal books.

Alberto